Midwife to the Dying:
Dying, like birth, can be fraught with labor pains. Birth and death are passageways into the unknown for the self, one coming in, the other going out. The role of a midwife is to offer great love, compassion, respect and tenderness to the labor of this transition. Gentle touching, words of encouragement, support, holding of hands, rubbing of feet, all and more are needed to assist one through this time.
We will all go through stages of fear and resistance as we prepare and come to terms with dying. As a midwife to the dying, I am a non-denominational Reverend available to give non-intrusive and unconditional support, love and prayers to assist you through the dying process.
My approach is:
- walking alongside the person facing death, honoring and respecting his or her own individual and unique way of living and dying
- helping to overcome fears
- encouraging the resolution of outstanding issues, both practical and emotional (e.g. forgiveness and the healing of relationships; organizing and cataloging of possessions, files, etc.)
- easing the transition using a variety of therapeutic methods including massage, breathing and relaxation techniques
- addressing the needs of the spirit and the soul, leading to an awareness that embraces death as a part of life
- supporting the dying person to feel empowered and able to make conscious choices
- creating a sacred, healing and loving space
- encouraging family and friends to be a part of this journey, teaching them how to listen, understand and respond appropriately to the dying person